Strict Parents?

Haha so I'm currently 14, and I grew up with a very sports oriented family. It was only on my step-dads side of the family but That's who I grew up around the most so it sorta passed onto me. My step-dad wanted his children to love sports and become professionals because it was a dream he had that he couldn't accomplish. But since I for one am into stuff that's far from sports I never enjoyed them. To make sure I played sports he threatened to take away both my phone and anything I relatively did, and so I didn't speak up about not wanting to play until last year. He took it relatively bad and took away my stuff as he said but eventually he gave it back (fucking 4 months later) And now if i don't find something that's active to do, I'll once again have to play softball.