women saying the f slur
					
					do y’all think it’s okay for lesbians (women loving women whatever) to reclaim faggot? (don’t worry i Ike boobs) i mean y’all i don’t get called fag for liking girls, only to get shamed because i said it once or twice,,,, 
i say this because a few weeks ago, a gay guy in my server got angry at me for saying it, and despite me explaining i wasn’t some straightie, he said he found it offensive so idk guys, what’s ur take on it?										
										
														 
				
								
								
				
		
	
		
		
				
				
				
Pretty sure "a gay man" doesn't mean "all lgbt+ people".
Just because someone called you something offensive doesn't mean you get to reclaim it. I've been called the d-slur plenty of times but I don't get to reclaim it because I'm not wlw and therefore the word has nothing to do with me. No one gets to "reclaim" slurs that don't pertain to them......			  
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				23 12,2020