Hot take

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Here is why yuri trope is mostly fem4fem while BL/yaoi trope is mostly masc4fem,

it's because the way men fetishize queer women is different than the way women fetishize queer men.

Men have this 'voyeur' fetish, in which they want the two girls 'doing it' to be people of their own so that they can put on a show for him.

while women when they fetishize queer men they insert themselves in the story/smut they imagine themselves as the 'bottom' this is why everyday some girl say shit like ' i wish i was a guy so i can have g4y seZ" but we don't see straight men being like ' i wish i was a girl'