Why do gay men & trans men think they have the birthright to insult straight women

Misogyny among straight men is common & they receive enough hate for it but gay men & trans men think they are entitled to do it? Y'all know right that after the LGBTQ+ community we're the ones who support you the most & the dudes y'all fawn over are homophobic in most cases? Saying stuff like "girls like her is the reason why I turned gay" / "I'm gay cus girls are annoying" is just straight up bullshit cus that's just denying the fact that people are born this way & can't 'turn' gay. And I 100% support trans men but could y'all please keep the insults & the long list of 'troubles' of being a girl to yourself cus we're living that life & very much proud of what we are.
PS: ofc I know 'not all gay/trans men' are like that, yeah .
Side note for people who learned the word fetish & won't shut up: I'm not one of those girls who worship gay men on a pedestal but those who do probably do it because they think they've finally found someone of the opposite sex who won't be friends with them just to get into their pants. They're not fetishizing you & have 0 interest in your sex life (mostly) .