We broke up a month ago, more or less, because we didn't love eachother anymore and we agreed that we wanted different thing from a relationship (i want to spend time with her, cuddle etc while she is a little bit colder then me). We remained friends, because there were no hard fealings and so we stayed in touch and i realized i'm falling for her again. Rationally, i know we want things that are too different and i don't want to start a relationship with her but i can't help to think about it. She is a precious friend and i don't want to cut her away from my life, but talking to her hurt me so much... I really don't know what to do... do you have any suggestion?
There is no right answer, so I can just give my own personal one.
Talk to her about it, be honest and tell her exactly what you are feeling, explain your whole thought process and just open up about the whole thing and try understanding where it is coming from, you don't need to find an answer.
Talk to other people to, people close to you, people...... reply
You have to remember that if you and her get back together you will have the same problems again and again, isn't it better you find someone else that gives you the things you need?
Or maybe you just miss her company.
Or maybe you can get back together with her but sacrifice a little, it's your choice.
SORRY FOR MY ENGLISH!
good luck reply
I currently going through sort of the same thing, except I'd have the girlfriend role in your story.
We never dated but we talked everyday, he really liked me and always asked how my day was everyday. He always invited me to dinner or to even just hangout, and would ask to call me all the time.
He was really nice and perfect, but I just couldn't li...... reply
You're not alone. i really loved my gf/bf before we broke up. and since they gave me teddy bears whenever i see it, all those fun memories and times together comes back.. makes me miss them and fall inlove even if how many times i try to forget about them its hard to move on if you reallylovehim/her 1 reply
im actually going through the same situation too. but im the girl here. we really weren't dating but we talk and have midnight chats, like some couples. but after a while, he asked for some space. and i agreed, because we weren't really together but i love him so i let him go. and after a while, he talked to me suddenly to ask me if we could be tog...... reply