I have this one friend in school..He has a best friend that he always call names on. He would say You're dumb, weak, or stop being a pussy to his best friend since pre-k. I mean he's nice to the girls and kids, but he's always mean with the boys. I always hear him saying bad things about his friends when they're not around. He's also very cocky. He thinks that everyone is afraid of him. He's also a hypocrite. One time his friend(a girl) was joking around and called him short. He got very mad and agrued with her. Even though I also joke around and call him short too. I heard from my one friend that he said that me and him was dating. Of course i called that off. I agreed to be his valentine, not his gf. One time at lunch, he said "This is the asian group" and left out his best friend, which is also asian. I spoke up about it, and then he just said it was a joke. He always calls his best friend names and then say it's a joke. This is always happening and it doesn't seem like a joke anymore. He once said to me "I want to punch him(his best friend)". Although he is well like by girls, sometime he calls his friends names and they just ignore it. He's really ignorant, I want to punch him but I don't want to get in trouble. Sometimes he's a nice friend, but other times he makes fun of others...He's my only friend that I'm comfortable with, What should I do?
*CLEARS THROAT* TELL THAT MOTHERFUCKER TO STOP BEING A RACIST ASSHOLE. LIKE BITCH U GOOD TO GURLS BUT NOT TO YOUR OWN GUY FRIENDS! my tip:killpeoplewhentheydontseeyou(jk) BUT GURLLL PUNCH HIS BALLS SQUEEZE EM AND SLAP THE SHIT OUT OF HIM FOR REALIZATION HIT HIM THIS IS NOT ALRIGHT. 2 reply
Honestly, from some of the situations you described, he seems like a jerk in many people's perspectives... but, guys will be guys. A lot of guys at my school call people names, but people know that it's in a joking manner. One of my friends used to neck me and trip me on the bus, but we'd always just laugh it off. It's a way to get a person's atten...... reply
if you ever felt unconformable around him instead of punching him let it be don't hang around him to much there are much better friends out there who you can be more conformable with. reply
You mention that you're most comfortable when you're with him, but throughout your written experience, you seem to always stay hushed when he does something you're unsure on how to deal with.
I may be very wrong, but that's just my perception of this.
I knew a girl, A, who shares your position and she becamed terribly depressed because her friend, ...... reply
Well, I wouldn't be so rash as to call him a motherbleeper, but you should definitely continue calling him out on his behaviour, especially if it seems like you are the only one who can/will. Be sure to give him a long, unwavering blank stare when you do. This will make him uncomfortable, and to avoid it he may think twice next time about acting th...... reply