WHY THE NEED TO JUSTIFY

yes. you read it right. i know you're tired of hearing and reading this word again and again if you read BL. I am too. ╥﹏╥ but this is what happened; so i uploaded a post asking why do people justify seungho's behavior (stupid me). i had no intention of shaming or stopping the readers from what they like. In fact i am against it. i never shame people for ther preferences. no matter how weird it is. i never ask them to justify why they like a character. and no one else should too. they have every right choosing what story they like, what characters they like, what authors they like. i asked the question genuinely in the nicest, most non-offensive way of asking a question.┗( T﹏T )┛

but you know what i got? long ass overanalyzed thesis papers full of hatred. and not jsut one but many. the replies were so complex ,everything was flying above my head. likeeee whaaaattttt. i even apologized. i feel bad now because i think i offended them badly. i am a simple person ( and sensitive too) my point was simple. my life is simple. but im stressed. i cant peacefully peace out now.
welp i guess the force is strong with this guy. what do yall think?
please dont attack.