ONE SIDED LOVE?
hi.. i just wanna share my own experience (sorry for bad english) first time i meet him ...he's a friend of my childhood friend, were on the same class ... my first expression to him is simple and talk active guy ... days later i found out that we are both way home ... awkward because i didn't talk to him yet ... weeks later .. he talk to me because he found out that im a "Otaku" .. we talk about anime's and other things .. one day he called me by name .. and exactly that day i found out that he likes my best friend .. i was hurt... but i just pretend i didn't know that because i don't want to ruin our friendship ... that year end and he didn't still know that i like him ... we move up to the next grade ... we separate section because of course .. but we still connected trough internet ....one day one of his friend told me a secret ... he said that "he like you , the first week that he see you way home? that day he told us that its like an scene in anime were only two of you left " I'm shocked .... i didn't realize that we have the same feeling ... but it almost 2 years i don't know if he still like me? .. because when i send him the picture of my best friend that he told me that he like's .. he looks so happy.. and he told me that he's inlove with her.. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD CONFESS ?? OR JUST FORGET THIS FEELING ??
BTW I'm a girl :)
~bastardpony
Messages
i think my final decision is I'm gonna tell him before we graduate I think it will be next year in jan-feb PLS PRAY FOR ME TT.TT I'm still nervous :<
Good luck !!(๑•ㅂ•)و✧
If you really love him I think you have to let him know because you might regret it if you don't.. Of course at the end it's your choice to make. :)
Please let us know your final decision !
I recently found out that sometimes your good friend can be a terrible live partner. We were amazing friends but as a couple we suck. Now we don't even talk anymore.
So before you confess, think about what could happen after. Do you think you fit well together? Are there habits that annoy you now? what do you want from a relationship? Does is match with things that he wants (if you know about them)?
What I am trying to say: If you can see him as a important part of your future, than confess. If you can imagine yourself being truly happy, even if he stays with this girl ... I am not so sure if I would confess.
First of all you need to have an open heart... with that you can accept any answer you'll received without feeling complicated...you have to imagine yourself in the worst scenario ever and came up with solutions on how you want to cope up it with...
Also what will you do once you confessed if he accept it..
If you can do that, then any answer will not be a problem..
First thing first you need to prepare your heart so you won't be in deep broken...
And please find the right timing when you wanted to confess...
Like not in between your exams week or near your birthday month...
Anyway, good luck gurl!
THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPINION <3