for the love of god... please stop saying "guys watch lesbian porn and read yuri so its okay to watch gay porn and read yaoi" no body is stopping you from reading boys love, and both forms of fetishization are equally fucked up. As a lesbian i feel super grossed out when i think about men getting off to lesbian porn, it's super gross. I can only imagine how mlm/nblm feel so please stop excusing it like that omg
