PLEASE IM COFUSED PLEASEEEEEE

Sooo yesterday I met with my boy friends. not BF but just a friends that's boy.
someGoddamn how we talk about my love character wich is kenma, and why I love him because he's so smart, calm and collected.
and then somehow the conversation change to
"most boy don't really like girls who's smart"
"they preferred the stupid and silly girl type"

I'm BEYOND confused
....
SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN WHYYYYYYYY

I asked them why they didn't answer.

please I stayed up all night thinking about this and I still don't understand