Is wanting to be a gay man fetishizing mlm?

Why would it be fetishizing? If you consider yourself as a man then you ARE a man. If you found out about this because you read BL then its ok too, don't feel like you are doing something bad. Everybody explores themselves in different ways. Also, not really related to your question and not talking to you directly but for some reason everyone here......   reply

Yes. If your reason is that your fascinated with the idea of having sex with a gay man   reply

I guess it is if you want to be a gay man just because of sex. I've been in a lil bit similar situation too. Like I wanna be a man because I'm curious if Im still going to be pansexual if I was a man. or how is it going to be with different genders if I'm a man.   reply