I DON'T UNDERSTAND-

You guys know how in yaoi the uke and seme be literally shoving their tongues down each other throats? But then you see the seme TALK or something?? Like- How the fuck are you able to even speak? I'm over here enjoying reading the kissing scene and the seme is literally speaking dirty to the uke while he is literally having a thumb war but with each others tongues- I just think it's weird and honestly pretty funny, thoughts anyone?