(sorry this is long) so i don't like being around my dad like at all. he found out i had a boyfriend he started calling me a slut, thot, whore and its really annoying.(wonder how he will react when he finds out i like girls too). he tells everyone my business and tells them i was talking about having sex with my boyfriend. which i never said i would. me and my boyfriend (ex boyfriend) didn't even talk about sex and if we did it was one time and like 3 sentences. he always calls me his baby and says ill always be his little girl. my birthday is Thursday and he called me on Sunday saying "even tho you are getting older you'll still be my baby girl you know that right." i wanted to say no cuz it made me uncomfortable and mad but i didn't have the balls so i said yes. my birthday party was Saturday but since my brother had a baseball game him and my dad wouldn't be able to come. so my dad made my mom change it to Friday and now half of the people that were coming aren't coming anymore. he always comes in my room never knocks and when he leaves he leaves with the door open. one time i closed the door behind him and he came barging in talking about "you don't got no damn privacy" then he took my phone and started going through it. im super uncomfortable around him and feel really suffocated. when i left my room to go get water he went in it took my remote and started watching the shit i was watching i came in and he wouldn't give me my remote. i had to fight him to get it back. he makes me change into pants when im wearing shorts and not even booty shorts biker shorts that are long and go down to my knees. he always says i have an attitude but i dont. if you know me or see me on here. u probably know i come off aggressive, bitchy, or angry. but that's just how i am even though im not trying to act that way.
Your dad doesn't seem to respect you at all, considering he talks about your private matters to others and spread lies.
Parents not allowing you your privacy is a huge no go and you feeling uncomfortable becaude he won't allow you your privacy is understandable and to be expected.
Now, there is a lot I could say to you, things you could try/ say/...... reply
No matter what you take out of the feedback people will give you, just be aware that you are not a slut, thot or whore just because you had a boyfriend. It’s very normal to be seeking a romantic companion, whether you just want to hold hands, talk, kiss or whatever, you are not bad for doing what most of us do at some stage or another.
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Your situation reminds me of my sister , like my dad calls her a slut and a whore just because she has a boyfriend , May I remind you that she's already 18 (legal age) and her bf is actually very kind and decent. When I hear him talk to my sister like that I always call him out and stuff. I may sometimes hate my sister but she doesn't nor anyone d...... reply
