Why?

Just noticed how most of you hoes out there would simp for a bad boy/edgy guy, or straight out, a literal psychopath instead of a guy who treats his mother good, would treat you good, would buy you extra large fries with sundae and wouldn't end up murdering you. In short, I just wanna know why you fantasize and think that your relationship with- for example- dabi wouldn't end up being toxic af, thank you.