PLEASE HELP!!

A friend asked me to just casually date.
We are hs friends and he confessed that time but I turned him down politely. Well, no hard feelings tho and continued to be friends and lost contact at some point. After several years, we sort of got in touch again. U know just the little chat updates , advices about his recent break up and shared interests. Then today, just asked me if I'm okay to casually date.

What does it mean? Does it make sense that I told them I need to think about it? I mean, I had a bad break up 2 years ago and still healing so i feel guilty using him at some point. He told me to just enjoy and not to worry but here I am doing the opposite. Are my guilty feelings invalid or u know overreacting? Please help :(

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sophie 08 07,2021

if you aren't comfortable in your relationship with them I wouldn't continue it, it'll only cause hurt to yourself. always prioritize you're feeling girl :) reply

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[DELETED] 08 07,2021

i mean if u don’t want to date the guy don’t do it,your not obligated in any way to date him! if u date him and u don’t have any feelings for him ur just hurting him and urself.if ur open to trying out a first date as a trial run to see if it makes u happy that’d be fine too. it’s all ur decision but remember if anything bad happens it no...... reply

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[DELETED] 08 07,2021

You aren't overreacting and your guilty feelings are valid. I was also in a similar situation and I chose to break it off - prioritize your feelings first hun, your feelings are much more important in these situations!! reply

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ThatQueerBastard 08 07,2021

I mean you could just start as friends with benefits. reply

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pacman101 08 07,2021

depends, are you a girl? 1 reply

08 07,2021

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