can lgbtq+ women stop preaching about straight women fetishizing gay men?

y'all are just as capable of fetishizing gay men as well. fyi, being lgbtq+ doesnt give you a free pass and y'all love to pull the "yaoi was founded by lgbtq+ women and they used it to express themselves reeeeee" yeah bc expressing yourself through r@pe fetishism between gay men is something to be proud of. big yikes. (the fact that yaoi esp. from pre 2010 era is known for its romanticism of r*pe is pretty creepy ngl). there is nothing wrong w consuming mlm content as a woman straight or not just dont be a creep about it. it's not hard. im all for addressing problematic behavior but lbr, lgbtq+ women are quick to call out straight women while simultaneously doing the same thing