i just realized i have tokophobia....
i didnt think it was a real phobia..
but to add to that im also gay...not saying gay people can't get pregnant...
just saying if ur gay i get why u would want to get a child that looks like or ur partner (either through surrogacy or ivf)
but there are so many orphans..if u really want a child...just adopt a bab...... reply
Nah...I already have one baby that I didn't even give birth to (my sister).
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I don't know... Like yeah, I have tokophobia, but it's not just the physical pain I'm scared of; It's what I have to lose.
The moment you have a child, your whole life is changed; it's irreversible.
I respect all amazing and brave mothers who love and cherish their kids, but motherhood comes with a cost: losing your best self, and I don't think I'...... reply
