I'm not 100% sure yet, but I think I'm genderfluid, and just wanted to ask if I'm fetishizing mlm because I read yaoi. I've seen some comments saying that women aren't allowed to read yaoi cause it's the same as men with lesbians, but I just wanna know if I'm being a bad person by reading yaoi because sometimes I identify more as female than male. Like, I dunno,, Anyone have a verdict?? Thanks a bunch
It gets creepy and annoying really fast when anyone start to (at least to me) refer to irl gay people as "uke" and "seme". Cringier if they say it to said couple's faces. 2 reply
