How tf do people socialize

I'd like to answer but i have no idea It just happens sometimes   reply

So... all of the answers were really wholesome. Mostly about how to make friends. I have to explain this beforehand. I have a manipulative nature. The way I socialise is mostly because I need to, not because I want to. If I find them of use, then I study them and do a list of questions I would like to ask them in my head and do an imaginary simula......   reply