Does anyone else not like LGBTQ questions/talks?
Okay as a person whos questioned a lot about their life and tbh I fucking hate putting labels on myself, I really don't like those talks abt the transgender/gay people. I am an ally, I don't really say I'm gay or straight or female or male I just am myself. I fully support my friends who are trans, I used to identify as trans and I dated both opposite and same sex before and perhaps I've been in so much drama because of it that I really don't like the topic at all.
It's kind of ironic that I'm talking about it now but I don't really give a shit if people get annoyed, I'm so tired of it.
Anyways, it's been a while since I identified/labeled myself a certain way and I'm just gonna stick to that and like who I like and be who I want to be. But I grew up in a strict asian household that were immigrants and clearly homophobic. I was never against that stuff but as I got older and explored more about myself it seemed like the conversations about shaming LGBTQ was so much more common in my house.
I got so fed up from defending myself that I didn't want to bring it up in my family dinners/conversations anymore. Honestly as I grew up the more I thought that the shit that the media is so focused on in todays age is so fucking bad.
People mention how media makes kids nowadays to change their gender and accept and be gay. They say it's a bad thing, and sometimes it can be! Letting kids explore their sexuality in my opinion is fine, but when surgery and other things that might affect their whole life comes into play is totally different. I almost got my dick cut off and I'm really glad I didn't because honestly at the time I wasn't that aware of the future.
But in my opinion, leading hatred to the younger generation to hate LGBTQ because they say "its ruining their minds, and Gen Z is fucked" is so messed up. In America specifically the problem is bad, theres 2 sides in which one supports and one has a deep hatred for. In my eyes, there both bad. The side that has a deep hatred for LGBTQ clearly is so angry at the fact that their neighbor is gay when they could be worrying real life problems and the good side is so worried about spreading their gender identity and sexuality rights everywhere. I fucking hate both sides because there's no point in doing either.
The people who don't like LGBTQ you don't got to make it your whole fucking personality that you don't like them. The moment the opportunity rises, you hop on their dick and either scream slurs or say their fucked up in the head. You mask your opinion as "your worrying for the future generation" and that its all a mental defect. I'm so tired of hearing that shit, your on a public forum your opinion isn't going to change it. If your so worried for everyone because their changing their gender, go get a gender studies degree.
The people who are so focused on their identity, I understand you. I get where you are coming from, I've been their multiple times and I questioned myself so many times. But for the love of god almighty, don't worry about it for your whole entire lives. You have so many years ahead of you to wonder about all of this complicated stuff. If you want to explore it when your young, I'm not saying its completely bad but what I'm saying is don't make any choices that you'll regret when your older. You don't have to be so worried about how the public eye perceives you when it comes to sexuality and gender identity because in reality the only time that you should care is when your in danger. If they think your weird who the fuck cares, but if your getting physically attacked for it thats the problem.
I rarely talk about this things unless I see it come up and I see unnecessary hatred about LGBTQ topics.
I'm sorry if you don't agree with me, and if you are going to comment something and your clearly riding my meat cuz ur mad I don't care.
But does anyone else feel this way?
Everybody, have a good day. I don't want to end this on a bad note, and regardless if you have different opinions and I'm not going to hate you in fact it's okay to have disagreements but the bad thing is when mean things are said. I am sorry for all the words you may be offended by but my intention wasn't to be rude I just said it on a whim.