ok so i have this guy friend and we've been friends for quite a long time and i tell you i normally despise the attitude of boys (yk what kind) but he's so babygirl and pretty the sweetest but he has so much trauma from past gfs he's not ready to like anyone anymore and i just recently realized my feelings (￣∇￣").. i'm not into dating rn cause i have a lot of things pent up and idk what to do should i wait till we're both in the proper mentality? should i confess my feelings? whatif he doesn't like me and things become awkward? should i just forget about it? (help guys he's really worth it but idk) (oh ps. we've flirted in the past but always cut it off in a non-awkward way)
If he is really worth it (men rarely are) I think you shouldn't go with the aggresive approach, have you tried dropping clear hints? (not casual flirting, no one takes that seriously), like why don't you try convincing him to hang out with you for some friendly outings, and after 2nd or 3rd one (if he doesn't realise it on the first) try pointing o...... 1 reply
srs answer from someone who was in alot of failed relationships so ik what not to do, asking ur friend out and him accepting is like a fairytail, if you break up you will NEVER talk again so its not worth it imo, depends on how he feels try to get outside forces to lowkey get the train moving and if hes out off then quit 1 reply
Even though ihave no experience but the best decision is to wait till you're both proper mentally, just stay beside him. Be confident with yo feelings, treasure him and tell him at the rigth time............... Dont blame me if it didn't work out......(๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ 1 reply
