do yall obsess over past friendships??
so ive been telling my friend of 3 years literally everything about this guy i had a crush on we were in the same friend group but she didnt really support it cause she thought he was a creep
after almost half a year of having a crush on him i noticed they were getting closer. whenever i saw them together i could literally feel my blood boiling but thought "eh theyre just friends maybe she had a change of heart"
eventually found out they started dating when i still had feelings for him. cut off all ties with her obviously.
the weird thing is even though i have absolutely zero interest left in him now i've become obsessed with her. i literally check her social media daily, cry to our photos together, listen to the songs she used to like. i have the number of her followers on all social media memorized and i regularly check if she liked something. ive seen her in my dreams at least twice every week
i mean i feel like im acting like a heartbroken ex but not for the right person????
do you guys mourn past friendships this intensely or like is this not normal
Listen to what everyone says here. I think you're obsessed because this might be you personally mourning that friendship in an unhealthy way.
Ask yourself these questions:
Perhaps something happened in the present that you are obsessed with her? Are you mourning and missing the friend that she was before she revealed her true colours? And now you......
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17 10,2023
