Is it painful with the first time even though there's lubrication and preparation?

I was reading my favorite danmei(BL chinese novel) and the main couple finally had their first time having sex. Now the people in the comments section : one was arguing that the seme should've stopped when the uke was crying (it was very sweet fluffy danmei), on the other hand they were saying that maybe the uke was crying out of pleasure and just cursed out the seme's stamina...

Now, i want to know, is it really painful no matter what you do the first time (In gay sex)? Because I know for sure that women feel painful with their first time ( pleasure comes in the middle) bc the hymen breaks..
Or is true that with proper lubrication and patience, the first time won't hurt? Enlighten me please!

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Cleopatra 08 06,2020

can't answer about sex between male bodies but anal sex in general sure thing. So first of all, no, there is no "door to be opened" in a biological sort of way. Apart from that I guess... shit varies and is complicated. Hmmm. Maybe I shouldn't use the word "shit" like this... It varies accordingly to a person's butthole, how nervous they are (mea...... reply

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Kerrrr 10 06,2020

Cleopatra knows what's up A thing to remember here is that we all have a butthole. Before trying stuff with a partner, please get to know your own body first. Nobody has to wonder and dream about what penetration feels like when you can, you know, find out for yourself. It's not the same, but still. It's shocking enough and the more you define yo...... 1 reply

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Super Anime Fan 10 06,2020

It's always painful the first time for boys and girls because there's stretching. reply

10 06,2020

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Is it painful with the first time even though there's lubrication and preparation?

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