How many friends do you guys have that also like BL?

I’m curious, because I’ve never had a friend who has read BL as much as I have. Of course I’d have some friends read a couple, but then they’d drop or never pick up new ones. This post isn’t really me begging for friends (that’s never how that works).

Another small question is, how are bigger BL loving communities like discord servers? Are most toxic, or chill and accepting?