People pleaser

Am I the only one who feels uncomfortable of making other people uncomfortable? Like if they were to bully me, I'll still appear fine because I don't want the mood the change or vibe into something uncomfortable? Why do I feel like I don't want them to feel embarrassed to the extent of sacrificing my boundaries? Idk how to recover from being a people pleaser honestly, I'm frustrated. Even though it's my fault since we're the ones who teach other people of our boundaries and respecting it.

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轻轻落下来的叶子 08 04,2024

I used to be a people pleaser until I realized that when you please people, they treat you like shit because at some point they think they deserve that treatment from you. Like, for most people, the nicer you are to people, the more they want to bully you just because they can. Idk if it'll turn out that way for you, but there isn't a set way. I t...... 1 reply

08 04,2024

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