Context

Yesterday I asked "Is it weird to read just bl?" question and I got responses related to mgg being a bl site and stuff so I felt like giving context on WHY EXCATLY I asked that question

One of my frd asked for romance reccs so I gave her few (including every genre bc I read everything) and she said bc she has been reading bl all this time she can't read/finds it hard to read straight romances despite being straight herself. I asked why so and she said it's just how it is for her?
Then I met another girl w the same issue who even had a bf that time so now I'm js confused

I don't mind them they're free to do as long as they're not hurting anyone tho I want to know why, so atleast I know I'm not missing anything so if someone has the same issue pls explain
Is it bc of the plot? Maybe they find it boring so they never bother? God I hope it's not fetishization
Lmao im js debating w myself now errr ya ok that's all I wanted to say