Kpop ships wtf

Bro I'm new to kpop. Actually just got into it... and the amount of ships with the artists? Idk if it's some sort of fetishization or weird delusions, but no matter how gay ur bias be acting you can't just ship them with other people. Like these r actual ppl. I thought the ship names were for duos and friendships between the members but ig not and literally every fandom is like this and it's disgusting.