Sex scenes in romance

Don't ya guys think sex scenes romance whether bl, gl, or straight, is good? But which sex scene better though, that fits in romance, Like a sex scene smtimes it kinda looks like porn all the time? Or sex scenes that looks super romantic, like it doesn't appear 3/4 of the story, just a bit subtle, and when it's shown, it looks beautiful? Like it really looks like they love each other, they embrace each other with love? Like, it kinda wanna makes u think u want a relationship like that..

For me, it's the latter, how abt you?

Please don't hate me for asking I'm just bored