Was there a time where you're so desperate for love, you'd do risky things for it?

Kinda having a hard time ignoring the fact I'm so lonely (romantically) in life rn. I have good friends, an ok relationship with my family, but you can't ignore the deep empty hole in your heart that wants you to have a special person?

I recently(?) broke up with my (online) bf, and it hurt me real bad mentally (broke up w him last year, june) and overall just made me seem like a horrible person by getting mad at him for every small inconvenience or some other way that I hurt him. Not only did I hurt him but my actions hurt me as well. I always thought "Why does it hurt so bad when i get mad at him?" I really don't know why I can't have a control button on my anger sometimes, especially when it's someone I care about.

Anyway, enough about him, I want to know why I just can't live without thinking of getting a partner soon just right after I broke up with my previous one. It's like I'm in a teenage boy's mind, after breaking up with my gf, i find a new one. I thought of doing online dating apps thinking I would get a bf there, but honestly I think im gonna end up talking to a p3do. I wanna be loved again, even if it's somewhat pretend, or just puppy love. I don't know what love really is, but I want to feel the warmth of it from a special someone who wouldn't hurt me and would be oh so patient with me and my stupid time-ticking bomb feelings. ( ´_ゝ`)

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LeRain 18 08,2024

You need friends and not a lover. Genuinely just start going out with your friends, visit fun places, travel to different cities, go to various restaurants. Maybe go to a gym, start a new hobby, learn a new language. Being so desperate for a relationship IS NOT NORMAL AT ALL. 1 reply

18 08,2024

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GenkiJaNaiiii 18 08,2024

I'll tell you this rn, you do NOT need a boyfriend. You need therapy. This is your reality check, you can't expect love from someone if you treat them like shit. Imho, it's selfish to date someone just because you feel like you have a "deep empty hole" in your heart. Get a pet if you feel lonely, not a person. 1 reply

18 08,2024

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Bubbles 18 08,2024

Heres a mika birthday card hope it cheers you up a little! I Thought I’d actually offer some support since no one else has. Not that I am the best person to offer it because I have never been in a relationship and I’m 20. I’ll just say that what you’re feeling is okay maybe not to the extent you’re describing but feeling lonely from t...... 1 reply

18 08,2024

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Eeeeee 18 08,2024

I suggest you look into anxious attachment style. ^^ And maybe enneagram types/subtypes (it has helped me). I too crave for a romantic partner to get the attention I need, but I know it is not healthy and I stay mindful of it. Anything forced is not going to feel pleasant, how much you try to pretend it is. And you probably heard it countless tim...... 2 reply

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lmina 18 08,2024

I don't really know whats the issue from just a short description, but it's definitely psychological issue. Humans, are really a complex being, i think you should dive deeper to yourself whats the cause of can't live without other person. While it's true that we are social person that need other people, it doesn't mean we are to live from another p...... 1 reply

18 08,2024

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