idk i may just be tweaking but recently a friend said he dislikes handmade gifts. no judgement there but what he said next kind of set me off a lil, because he said he wouldn't want one from his theoretical girlfriend and handmade gifts would end up in the trash. of course i ask 'even if its from her?' and all he told me was i should be practical ermmmm... idk. it might be a slippery slope argument but i just feel like hed be the type to throw his childs drawings in the trash. is it a red flag or am i just unreasonable
imo there is a chance he’s just an asshole. HOWEVER, there’s also a chance he just hasn’t figured out why people keep pointless gifts yet, like it goes right over his head. He might not realize how bad it hurts their feelings. reply
