I feel like people my age have immaculate fashion sense, especially women, and since fast fashion is in rn every mf has access to stylish cheap clothing. It's something I'm kinda self conscious about, because there's this invisible pressure to look good. Went to the school bathroom today and heard a few girls shit talking me, ik I'm above all of this, they're teen girls, can't expect them to be mature, But damn did it hurt. My family members always comment on this too. What's wrong with women just existing, it's great that some pay attention to their looks, just be satisfied by looking at those people and stop bothering us avg folk tryna get through life. I'll admit it, I don't have a trendy style, but it's not like I dress shabily or am unhygienic. I'm a clean freak, take good care of my skin and hair, what more do people want lmao. I think I'm the healthiest rn, but whenever I hear shit like "dress more feminine it suits you, you should wear some makeup" I wanna combust into flames and give them 3rd degree burns.
Honestly if you feel healthy and satisfied, fuck whatever others are yapping about. Being a woman isn't a performance, you don't owe them shit lmao. Those who wanna dress up do it for themselves and those who don't too. Unnecessary comments can be a pain in the ass but as a woman who's masc myself, who gets told to be more feminine a lot, all I can...... reply
If someone tells you how to dress or look, you should suggest they perhaps die.
Looks aren't important and everyone gets old and saggy and incontinent eventually (unless they die young lol) so it doesn't matter. Just put on some leggings and a t-shirt and try to survive the day.
ALSO teenage girls will rip on u for ANYTHING, it's just how they are...... 2 reply
i'm not exactly the right person to comment on this. but just want to say the first step isn't to not give a fuck about ppl's opinion on your style but for you to fully accept and be comfortable with your own. you will naturally grow not to gaf then. also when dealing with such comments, responding in a harsh yet curt manner really delivers the min...... reply
You must live in a shitty place Jesus. I dress like some 12 year old that went dumpster diving and kids in my highschool don’t say anything lmao. Also idk anyone that dresses feminine and asking/ telling someone to wear makeup is crazy imo just ignore those weirdos fr reply