Asking for a friend, jk. Please hear me out. When I started my first job I've been really close with my senior who was turning over her job to me and same with our chief engr. (they are quite a famous couple on our office even tho he always deny it). As the youngest employee they often bring me along and treated me as a child, also they have a bit of an age gap w/ me so I often ship them together. When my senior resigned, I remain as friends with our chief and we often hang out together. But not so long ago I felt that I'm falling for him, at the same time he confessed to me about his own feelings (he said that he like me for some time now). I didn't meant for everything to happen, I thought it will be like a simple unrequited crush. I want to distance myself but I think the truth is I like him a lot? What will you guys do in this situation? (I thought this only happens in stories)
Baby no, being a third party will ruin your life and your self respect. DON'T. You're just being swayed by too many things that seem to be good AT THE MOMENT. Only engaged with a man when you are sure he's clean or he will choose only YOU. trust me I've almost been there. To this day it haunts me cause I've disappointed myself...ajsbsidh just Don't 1 reply
NO. Have respect to yourself and to them. If that chief don't wanna adjust, then you should be the one to adjust on that situation. Even though u like him a lot if that relationship was gonna be build on another woman's tears then it's pointless. It will never stand strong. Also if he was able to say he likes you even tho he's currently in a relati...... 1 reply
babes have some self respect for yourself and the other person in the relationship to NOT pursue anything further with this man, sincerely someone who has been cheated on. 1 reply
He’s manipulating your feelings.
He can tell you have feelings or whatever for him and is using it to his advantage so he can have sex with you. If he was interested in you, he wouldn’t be in a relationship. Or at least that’s what it sounds like.
You shouldn’t fuck people you work with PERIOD. If it ends messily, the atmosphere would be...... 1 reply
Don't do it girl, whenever you feel tempted think that even if you date a cheater is always a cheater, if he is capable of that while having a gf he won't be any different with you, you might think you are special and it will be different but he will do the same he did with you with another girl. If he really took you seriously he would have left t...... 1 reply