Idk if this has been asked yet, but what's the reason behind so many manhwas having these good-for-nothing red flag tops? Is it because it's easier for the manhwa to get popular bc people will talk about it? Because the only manhwa that I can name which is really popular and has a 100% green flag top is Our Sunny Days(btw if you know any good ones feel free to recommend!!)
we get attracted to toxic characters and ppl when we haven't healed our childhood traumas. unconsciously we want to "replay" our unhappy childhood and make our projected "parent" to finally love us
a lot of ppl are fucked up by their upbringing, so... reply
Popular responces are along the lines of:
-"i can fix him" mentality
-ppl with.... interesting kinks
-unhealed/toxic ppl are attracted to unhealed/toxic stories.
While those arent exactly wrong, id argue its in part because stories with green and red flags just hit differently fundimentally. Having a messy ass toxic top provides a lot more room f...... reply