Does it get better after you move out of your parents house
Like chat be honest with me dose it bc I'm this close to just kms Like they really got me over here Doing sh again Two days before my birthday After months of being clean like all that work and for what? And honestly I hate it so much because I can't even hate tham For it without feeling like an Ungrateful piece of shit bc One moment they're nice and we have a healthy Child and parent relationship Laughing joking And the next moment they're calling me names and saying There going to Kill me and commit murder because of me and all Type of other shit And after that they expect me to be normal and pretend everything is fine like huh And if i don't pretend everything's okay they get mad at me And say how it's not that big of a deal but Like I said I can't even be hate them for it bc Most of the time they're actually good parents and Every time I do have a negative emotion towards them I always feel so bad and spoiled Because I know so many people out there have it worth then me
It does.
I’m not gonna sugarcoat it by saying everything will be fine and great all the time, because shit happens and administrative work is hard as hell when no adult had properly teach you how to do that. Some things are hard, but you can learn stuff (how to do administrative work, how to cook, etc).
Having friends you can rely on help, and ...... reply
It does it does it does. And yeah people have it worse but your situation isn't great either. There's not like a threshold level of suffering you need to experience before you're allowed to want better.
What your parents are doing sounds like emotional abuse and it's still abuse even if it's not all the time. Even if they're caring and affectiona...... reply
like the other person said similar for me but also TOO similar??? i dont know when this was posted but my birthday also happens to be in two days lol (best wishes btw) but anyways though i myself have yet to move out i think it does get better (looking at my older brother) not immediately of course youve got to put in the work but yeah. my trick is...... reply
Your parents are the main cause of your distress, so it will get better if you move out. Ten years ago my cousin jumped off his dorm building and survived, and his parents were mad that this incident brought "shame" to the family. My uncle told everyone he attempted because he was addicted to drugs (and not because he was clearly very emotionally a...... reply
R u saying they threatened to kill you cuz u didn't clean? It's possible they're the emotional type or to them it's the only way to "scare" you into action.
My mom threatened my that she'll throw my stuff out the window into the street or even kick me out of the house if I didn't kill my room because according to her, it's been weeks that I've be...... reply