Saying this because I haven't seen anyone talk abt it

Soo.. I felt like saying this, since I always hear a lot of people talking about this. Has anyone noticed on how, some people would say, that rape, harassment, minor, and a adult dating, grooming ect, ect, is okay/normal, if it's a the same gender like mlm, and wlw, and that age doesn't matter if it"s queer. I've also seen, and heard a lot of people talking, telling others about this, which really disgust me a lot. Not only did I hear people say these, but they would also tell me stuff that "Rape is okay if it's the same gender, plus they aren't gonna get pregnant anyways." The weirdest part is that, it's usually adults, "religious" people, or old hags/man saying these.. I also have seen comments in website/app like Pixiv, Facebook, saying shit like "Dating minors should be legal" or, "Rape should be legal" and shit... Like do they NOT feel shame, saying those..???