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rize 10 03,2025
now ask that to him, is he willing to give up his culture and identify for you? if he said yes then he should break their tradition to be w you there's a lot of horror stories about losing their identity within the marriage and i know it was hell for them just by listening to it, now imagine yourself 10 years from now? if you want to work it out ......   reply
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Lazy_Potato 11 03,2025
guys this was actually just a thought experiment, but i assure you that this is a real phenomena that happens to my ppl all the time, BOTH men and women give up their identity to marry the person they love from this specific ethnicity. since i've never fallen in love nor have i ever been in a relationship- i struggle to understand how they could ju......   2 reply
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Bitch I'm up 10 03,2025
Girl no fuck that man and fuck his family if they won’t accept you for who you are, and he supportive of his family decision of not accepting you for your identity then you guys clearly need to have a talk and sort out your feelings if you guys weren’t together for so long, I would have just said leave him and find someone better but you guys h......   reply
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Onetime 10 03,2025
This is the XXI century. Tell them to sit and spin. Especially if they are english.   reply
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eastabunnyyo 10 03,2025
Consider if you want them as in-laws. Many divorces happen because of people OTHER than your partner. And in many cases the in-laws are the reason. If they are so demanding NOW can you imagine what they'll be like when you're essentially under their control via your husband? If he doesn't even flinch at their suggestions or step up for you, it's ......   reply
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Cute_KittenZ 10 03,2025
Giving up yourself for love??? Then what the heck does your bf even love about you if your about to give up your whole identity??? Is that even love anymore ;_;   reply
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Kamisito 10 03,2025
My hot take on this is that it depends on your boyfriend culture that you reverting to like is a culture you're curious and open to adopt as a lifestyle or do you have some reservations towards it and will you be able to keep some part of your culture to indulge doing from time to time too , if so i think you should do it but at least ask your bf t......   1 reply
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Elle ne parle pas francais 10 03,2025
Adding to what the others have been saying, oppression always starts like this. Now you "just" have to change your name and give up your identity but what's next? Assuming that this is targeted at women, it's really indicative for how this culture views women. You have to fully subjugate yourself to a man and his family. ESPECIALLY since your boyfr......   reply
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MooMATHEW 10 03,2025
Tell ur bf u are not okay with it is he mama’s boy speak em   reply
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Cinnamon 10 03,2025
Your bf never loved you for who you are if he is so adamant about you changing your identity. Fight this. If I'm marrying someone I would never ask them to change their identity because at that point, I would love them wholly and unconditionally for who they are. That's why I'd marry them in the FIRST place. Also, this conversation should have be......   reply
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