How many months do you think a person needs to actually say they've changed

Some of them people often say "people don't change that fast" what if they do? cant some have the emotional intelligence and deep level of care? Thats an opinion too but ppl act so much like its fact. it doesn't apply to everyone. People vary in emotional intelligence, some ppl struggle with it and it takes them time while others learn quickly through advices and know their wrongs and make it right. It can be a mixed of both. Nobody gets to dictate that "They'll do it again" thats not your end to say mostly. Sorry rant i was so upset with how my friend got shit on for something in 2023. Which is 2 years ago.

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Cruchy_rollers 13 03,2025

For me, it’s not a matter if they changed, it’s what they’ve done. A person can become the purest saint ever and treat everyone with love and kindness, but if they did something like rape someone, I won’t forgive them and hate them forever. If a person has clearly changed after doing something like be extremely toxic and it’s very clear t...... reply

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Mioro 13 03,2025

Personally I don't think people can voluntarily change their bad behavior, regardless of time. those who rlly do change do it bc they get slap in the face by life and make sure to physically never end in those situations again (let's say, they get traumatize by their consequences), btw this is what happens to most people when they're growing up: do...... reply

13 03,2025

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