For Lesbianism's & Shapeshifters (non lesbian people please kindly fuck off)
Are genderfluid lesbians who primarly uses masc pronouns, considered valid? Oh and, is it weird for someone to say they're pansexual, but only like trans guys and not cis men?
im bisexually intruding on the convo bc im nosy:
1. he/him lesbian is an established butch queer culture thing afaik, but i think the pronoun is separate from the gender; if the actual gender is giving "he/they" with little to no "she" then it's giving straight. but if its mostly just "they" vibes then flip a coin.
2. saying that's pansexual isn...... reply
maybe you should take a glance at the ancient tomes. (Tumblr)
Here's a post that answers your question.
https://bonefall.tumblr.com/post/706496614469107712/i-dont-understand-hehim-lesbians-im-friends
At the end of the day you're not alone in identifying as such, though I'll admit there will be folks who find it invalid, it's really about whether...... reply
legit who gaf what others do? isnt't that kinda the whole point of being queer?
as long as it involves consenting (and ideally decently informed) adults, live and let live. If you're not being directly affected and/or harmed by those people, literally why do you care. reply