im bisexually intruding on the convo bc im nosy:
1. he/him lesbian is an established butch queer culture thing afaik, but i think the pronoun is separate from the gender; if the actual gender is giving "he/they" with little to no "she" then it's giving straight. but if its mostly just "they" vibes then flip a coin.
2. saying that's pansexual isn......
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