Uhhh listen I would at least give it two years before you move in with a guy because you’ll need to learn how they actually are because you won’t really ever know how they are at home who knows they could be abusive they could be different so give it some time until you know that it’s safe and it’s actually the right decision reply
I don’t believe there’s a real answer for this. You could know someone for years and still find that living with them is unrealistic AFTER it happens.
Living with someone and being with someone then separating for some time is different. Your space is no longer yours anymore. It really just depends on if you’re ready or not. reply
Why not just sleep over as much as possible like a 1 month trial of kinda-living together of some sort and if he's not that unbearable to be with then that's when u start deciding whether u actually wanna move in together? Bcos that's what i did and now we're married. GL 1 reply
The sooner the better, it allows you to know who and how they really are. You don't truly know someone until you live with them. And if it doesn't work out, at least you didn't married them yet. reply
