my boyfriend the first ever person I've had sex with, takes care of me a lot. but it seems like I can never get him off. meaning he always has to pull out and jerk himself off for a couple mins to cum while I lay there catching my breath. he never says anything about it, but it makes me feel like I cant do more for him. I tried sucking him off but that was a fail.
It might be his problem bcos i used to date a guy like that and he just couldn't relax and be in the moment with me cos he was too nervous and conscious about everything while doing it that he just couldn't finish.
Or maybe he has intrusive thoughts and worries that put him off? Or maybe theres something that u do while doing it that he finds unse...... reply
I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Maybe you should try talking to him about it or something. As the other commenter said, death grip syndrome sounds like a good explanation. reply
