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I started university recently and got a new group of friends. My friends in high school were people I knew since we were babies so when I came out to them both guys and girls didn't treat me any differently. Also I was never one for skin ship so that was never an issue. But now in uni most of the girls are super straight, like pretending to kiss a ......   reply
01 04,2025
Uhhh, ngl, I never actually came out cause I’ve never seen a need too…   2 reply
01 04,2025
Not gonna lie I’ve never had to come out to any of my friends. They all assumed I was queer on some level. One even said I “Looked visibly gay” which I mean… fair I guess??? And I’m the type to absolutely CLING to my friends. Back in high school my theater teacher coined the term “Friends aren’t furniture” because I kept sitting on ......   reply
01 04,2025
From a young age, I was a shy girl. I didn't like changing my clothes whether people were watching were men or women, so I preferred changing clothes alone I don't even let my mother or sisters see me naked I don't like seeing people (including my siblings) change so I always turn my head when they start changing clothes. On the other hand for touc......   reply
01 04,2025
depends on the people around you really. i got blessed with understanding people in my life, I'm out and no one cares lol. i do remember coming out to this friend i had, when i didn't even understand what i was myself, and she was all disgusted and shit and then stopped talking to me, but that's just one interaction, most people have not cared abou......   reply
01 04,2025
I had people who treated me differently. I was part of my high school's volleyball team and we all got changed in the same room. Some of them started acting weird while they were changing while some others didn't even care. Mind you one of the people who didn't care was another bisexual girl so I think that explains a lot. Seeing how comfortable sh......   reply
01 04,2025
All my friends are fruits. So no this has not happened. Then again my friends and I see each other as siblings since we've known each other for years. None of us bats an eye to physical intimacy nor changing clothes. If anything I only feel sort of awkward with coworkers and people I don't know that well.   reply
01 04,2025
friends from childhood knew and were cool with it, we weren't super physical touch/nudity heavy though;;; there was only like one time a friend in HS rejected a v-day gift from me (i gave v-day gifts to like 6 friends). but i still worried it affected how ppl saw me so i went back into the closet come uni.   reply
01 04,2025
My friend and I were pretty tight back then and yeah we were very touchy touchy and kissed each other on the cheeks as well. When I came out to her and I had a hardcore crush on a girl at that time, she was extremely supportive and pushed me to confess to her! I am really grateful to her for being such an angel. I never felt like I was taking advan......   reply
01 04,2025
So, why are you feeling guilty about being physical with your female friends? Is it awkward for you being in those situations? Did you talk about it with your female friends? Did you have the same feelings before coming out? Maybe you are projecting your uneasy feelings onto them? I would advice to observe and reflect your feelings. Also ask some ......   reply
01 04,2025