This gotta be Illegal right???

So i have this friend that have a long distance gay friend and she told me about him and about the fact that he have a bf so i was like well thats cool not until she mentions the age gap bro the gay dude was 16 his bf was around 21 yold which is hella pedo behavior and i told her that girl isnt he getting groomed and his bf is literally a pedo and gues what she told me she said "yeah ik but like their inlove the guy was literally sweet towards him" bitch no one cares if the guy is sweet towards the 16 yold kid the thing is that his literally getting groomed and whats worse was the 20 yold guy fell inlove with the 16 yold kid first and just the other day she let me listen to a VM that the 16 yold send to her of them two individuals having SEGS