HOW TF DO YOU KNOW IF A GUY WANTS TO KISS YOU?

SO BASICALLY, i was sitting with my guy bf outside at night on a bench right (mind you, we were at a party) . And i was talking a lot and i said “why don’t you start the conversation?” and he was like “About what?” So i said “well what do you want to talk about?”. AND THEN HE WENT SILENT AND WAS STARING AT ME, AND I WAS STARING BACK. AND HE KINDA MOVED CLOSER AND I DID, AND IT WAS JUST AN AWKWARD SILENCE AND THEN WE WENT INSIDE. HELP ME RANDOM STRANGERS ON MANGAGO, I SUMMON YOU ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ