I'm sorry what do I do...I don't understand

so i'm a huge bl fan, i read yaoi mangas and i freaking love them but for some reason seeing homosexuals in reality just makes me feel homophobic....i wonder why like, the bl animations, manhwas I like the very much i squeal, or run or kick my pillow whenever there's a cute scene. But If saw something like that in rl i dont have the same feeling...Is something wrong with me(I think so)I'm not hating its just not the same feeling. I'm so concerned about myself...

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ѕυιяєη★♪ 07 04,2025

i think that should be normal. i dont think seeing random queer people outside being lovely dovey should make you squeal or whatever. it's like straight couple, you see them and nothing else. just people in love with each other. while in bl manga, the people are in pretty/cute art style and you get to see them build up their love story 3 reply

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ELLIE 07 04,2025

Idealized attractive gay couples written by women for the female audience ≠ real life gay people. Separate your opinions. This is giving the same vibe of people hating the actors for playing villains in movies. reply

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Me_for_ president 07 04,2025

I think you’re just homophobic and fetishize gay men. Gay people are real, not just for your fucking entertainment. 1 reply

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Focalors 07 04,2025

it ok to feel that way, don't listen to hateful comments. reality and fictions are two different things. i also don't feel anything when i see couples in real life. some extra lovey dovey couple even make me cringe, when they do stuff in public. like bro do it in private. its also normal to feel that way toward lgbtq. 1 reply

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Genboxxy 07 04,2025

it could just be coz you're young so you're highly idealistic and naive, but you need to look at the situation clearly first to see where it went wrong. Is it really homosexuals or the actions in BLs happening live in front of you that's making you feel off? Say, a person who looks and acts gay sits beside you, just scrolling through their phone,...... reply

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liya 07 04,2025

nahhh because they dont look like the stereotypical 4’11,big eyes,skinny twink with the 7’9 daddy alpha male boyfriend?? reply

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arkaived 07 04,2025

this is straight up the most idiotic thing i've ever seen in this fucking site. let me unpack. so u like watching two fictional boys kiss, cry, and call each other 'mine' while u giggle and kick your pillow... but the moment you see two real guys holding hands or maybe existing too close to each other, your inner karen starts sweating? yeah. there�...... reply

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Seikooc 07 04,2025

gay people are gay people, raw and realistic, BL is a fantasy, just remember to understand what about actual gay people make your uncomfortable.. and try not to compare them to drawings, because they aren’t a fantasy for your sake but people living their lives, loving who they love reply

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YiLing LaoZu 07 04,2025

Bruh ur just prolly seeing them as perfect 100/10 like in fictional but in reality they’re just ordinary ppl 1 reply

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