Best friend is changing pls idk what to do cryin

She’s always been depressed and she’s extremely influenced by things she sees online (right now she’s into jirai kei) anyway now she’s hooking up with over aged men (we’re minors), talking drugs and smoking, making plans to do a double suicide, she also wants to be like Dolores from Lolita apparently. And now she’s talking about going back to her ex to do a double suicide with them.. who has moved on and is happy now!! It’s making me kinda grossed out but I also don’t want to lose her (I’ve already tried talking to her she just won’t listen she agrees but then does nothing)

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Jiyeonie 05 05,2025

I think that's out of your control, she needs professional help. I'm sorry. Is there anyone else important to her? About the aged men, please report them to the police. Just do it. Also have you considered opening this up to her parents? If her relationship is okay with them. Open this up to any adult or trusted figure you know in real life, if she...... reply

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Thime 05 05,2025

Sounds like you should tell a trusted adult…maybe the school guidance counselor. When my friend was having a hard time, I told my mom but being minors makes it difficult. Depending on your country there should be a hotline. If you’re American you can dial 988. reply

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⭐Salvation⭐ 05 05,2025

see realistically you cant do anything, and dont try to go out of your way to do something, just tell her parents or teacher ang get help from a trused adult, you will exhaust yourself trying to solve someone else's problem and end up depressed as well, it is not your responsibility 1 reply

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miaumiau 05 05,2025

You should tell a trusted adult so they can reach out and help her, you're a minor too and theres only so much you can do :( Shes putting herself in a lot of dangerous situations and its hard to come out once youre so far in, even while being aware of it. Whatever may happen remember you are just trying to help because you care, and having a friend...... reply

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Tantan 05 05,2025

how about taking her to engage in something new and healthy? Any new sports, hobbies, or any activities that helps her focus on something new and exciting. I believe that if one person voice is not enough maybe a group of new people or new environment can! maybe if she likes to dress up maybe try making new clothes? join new class talk to new peop...... reply

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