How do people do it? When I express myself, it always backfires. I'll do one thing and they'll criticize me for it when others are doing the same and get off Scott free. Everytime I say, "Hey, it upset me that you did this." Instead of just apologizing people always go on the defensive or completely dismiss me. How do I even deal with that?
People hate admitting their fault, so it's not your fault that they get so mad, you just need to find emotionally sound and mature people who're willing to have a productive dialogue. Or kill them! That always helps! reply
