Romantic partners and yaoi/romance manga

How many of you have partners? Do they know you read smut, specifically yaoi? Are they ok with it?
If you don't have a partner would you be ok with it in a romantic relationship?

I recently got a partner, they don't know about me reading yaoi but I can't tell if I should stop because I'm in a committed relationship now. I don't feel guilty or anything, but regardless I won't tell them so we can't discuss it and I'm unsure if it matters or not.

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Doll 10 05,2025

Idk if it's just me but I would never let my irls know I read yaoi/Yuri. I keep my gooner hobbies away from my personal life 1 reply

10 05,2025

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BoardingSine 10 05,2025

I am married. He knows what i like. I dont read it around him but i tell him about the really interesting stories. If youre planning on being with them forever then you should let them know how crazy you are before committing. If they cant accept you then they aint the one. reply

10 05,2025

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Shh 10 05,2025

I dated someone who knew I read yaoi/yuri lol. they were pretty chill with it. Probably because I knew them as my friend first so I already aired out all my weirdness to them 1 reply

10 05,2025

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Jiyeonie_lol 10 05,2025

Yes they're okay with me reading yaoi. She gets the BL craze and we have similar taste too but she just wants me to read more SL smut lol.Fiction is fiction, smut is smut, idc it's just reading. I'm slightly scared of the Josei she recommends me... Like damn few of them are pegging reply

10 05,2025

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Mama_Agnus 10 05,2025

I think everyone is my life knows (save my parents) I read yaoi/yuri, that's because I do it ethically and view it as any other romance instead of extra romanticizing shit just because it's two coochies or dick. I also read dark romance (ironically) for that balance. reply

10 05,2025

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