Goodbye my daughter.
My daughter bday just ended and tomorrow, I will no longer see her. She's moving away and I will miss her. Before yall say "video calls exists" (no hate for saying it) I don't plan to keep in contact because I don't really wanna bother the new parents so much. She was adopted by them for a reason and I shouldn't hold onto her. I need to let her go plus it feels akward for me everytime and I want her to love her two moms more than me. I wrote her a letter to read when she turns 12, my contacts and stuff are in it if I'm still alive till then. I just hope she grows up to be an amazing woman and get my iq for reals and mb I'm like sobbing idk why am I even sharing this to mggo
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I would always ask the moms what they okay with Ur relationships. im sure it would be nice for her to know her bio father even if she is adopted.
her being adopted doesn't take away Ur love for her. I'm sure the lesbian's wont mind some communication
That made me sob ty cus maybe I did overthink things and you're right
ofc
U have a child who was adopted it's quite normal to overthink this.
from one mutral to another. u got this. swear it
Ah I'm sorry junjun ur strong for that though Im sure she misses u too. With all due respect, stfu u NEED to vid-call her, or else she'd think u sold her off or abandon her to her new parents. U need to call her frequently and sent her gifts so she knows that u love and care for her. Along w her 2 mom ur gonna be like their good friend. Its gonna be super hard on u all ur life and shes gonna be sad so just do it.
Awww now Im starting to feel bad help, but I'll try since I know their contact but at some point I may no longer can continue cus im about to be real busy af with my career path
Though I don't know the whole story, I think the fact that you're willing to give her up so that she can grow up well itself shows that you're a good father. I hope she'll grow up well, I hope she contacts you again. Stay strong man. I hope life does you good.
I keep coming back to read this cuz I feel so bad about how I reacted to u telling me that u hv a daughter. Goddd I said "lil bro there's no way ur a father" noooo I'm a terrible friend pls forget it. I'm so sorryyy I really didn't know it was serious. I feel so embarrassed and sad rn.
you are making me cry. i hope you are okay.
I'm okay! I've been healing and stuff abt this so dw :))
Hey girl, it is incredibly strong and beautiful of you to give up your daughter for the chance for a better life for both you and her. I'm sure she will take after you to grow into an amazing woman, as you are now! It is normal to grieve and there is nothing wrong with expressing it however you want, venting to strangers is easier for some so no judgement, and I hope you make sure you process all your emotions because even if you know this is the better decision, your emotions will be a rollercoaster anyway, so make sure you don't push yourself too hard or bury your feelings down. Please cry if you want to! Much love xx
Thank you but I'm a guy, no hate I'm just saying cus hahaha but rlly that's so inspirational and made me cry abit more than now <3
AHH IM SO SO SORRY THATS ON ME FOR ASSUMING but I'm so happy my message comforted you even in the slightest, and yeah, ur processing something so very difficult, so I really hope you take some time to yourself and no shame in crying, sending lots of love
No need to say sorry!! Yes so really thank you <333
Mannn idek what to say this hurts... (Also I'm sorry for making jokes earlier. I was just surprised to find this out. I feel bad now ╥﹏╥)
It's surprising to see normal posts here, or maybe it's just that I'm too far gone to the brainrot.
I'm sure she'll be as lovely as you seem and i don't think she'll find you annoying if you keep in touch. Also I'm sure she could love her new moms but at the same time you too equally.
I'm mostly the only one who posts normal stuff sometimes, I occasionally do brainrot to be funny.
But aww thanks I'll try to think abt it, honestly if she wants to call I'll do it but I just don't wanna be a burden or interrupt lol
Honestly we do need normal posts, users like me whose minds are too brainrotted need to be kept in check with wholesome posts like yours
I'm sure you're not gonna be a burden, you seem so nice. Take care <3
Bro....u have a child..
Yus i have a whole storytime abt but it's kinda tragic and heavy but let's just say yes!