Relationship struggles

How did y'all deal with that? I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months now, we've been friends for about 7 before properly going out on dates and such. Now here's the thing, at first it was really nice and everything, given we were in our honeymoon phase all was nice and I could dismiss the fact that he was pretty dense, it's one of the things i found funny. Until it wasn't. We started arguing, a lot. Mostly about like tiny things but that mattered to me (Not waiting for me to go outside for our break anymore, leaving me behind when talking to his friends, telling me to only come with him "if i want to."). I know I sound like I'm in denial and not seeing the fact that he doesn't actually love me but he does, he's sincere with his love when we're not arguing, but his mood is a reflection of my own and it's so tiring that I can't have any emotion besides neutrality or happiness around him otherwise he takes it as an insult towards himself. I don't wanna give up dating him because I've put plenty of effort into all of this, I made the first moves and everything, because I feel like I can't love another person this deeply. What should I do? I've tried telling him explicitly what to do when I want comfort or when I'm mad but he still does things his way.